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How to Coupon Effectively – Retail: $8.97

Are you sick and tired of spending so much money in the grocery store? Are
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Easy Peasy Chores – Retail $18.99

Easy Peasy Chores is a printable chore system that includes every job the
average family needs to keep their home in order. It uses the appeal of
baseball cards coupled with games and unique incentives to put joy back
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The Homemaker’s Guide to Creating the Perfect
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This is the Deluxe Edition because not only does it contain step by step
instruction and help in creating the perfect homemaking schedule,
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Large Family Homeschooling – Retail $7.99

Are you homeschooling a growing family? Are you looking for ways to get
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Encouragement for Homeschool Moms – Retail – $4.99

Feeling discouraged as you face the rest of the school year? Encouragement
for Homeschool Moms
, will lift your spirits and renew your courage.
Filled with faith-building stories and encouragement for “those”
days we all have sometimes.

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Plan To Be Flexible: Designing A Homeschool Rhythm
and Curriculum Plan That Works for Your Family – Retail: $3.99

 

Born out of one mom’s struggle to find order and peace, reading this book
is like having a coffee with someone that’s “been there, done
that.” Plan to Be Flexible’s focus on “rhythms” instead
of a rigid schedule testifies to how free-form learning (and the realities
of daily life) can happily co-exist within the framework of a goal-oriented
plan.

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Dyslexia 101 – Retail: $5.99

With the correct information and the right methods, dyslexic children can
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From from research to real life, prevention to remediation, from preschool
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Homeschooling Day by Day – Retail: $4.99

If you’re a homeschool mom in need of a little inspiration, or if you’ve
ever considered homeschooling but aren’t quite sure you can do it,
Homeschooling Day by Day will encourage and empower you! Learn about
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How to Build a Strong Christian Home: One Step
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Do you desperately need help building a strong Christian home?
Are you tired of just being on autopilot and just getting by day-by-day
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Our families are a blessing and worth the patience, love, and time
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Today we see so many families fragmented, dysfunctional, and destroyed.
We can change that and there is hope for every family out there.

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Purposeful Planning – Retail: $9.95

Does having your spouse’s undivided attention appeal to you? Planning weekends
give you time to dream, to talk together about what you wish, or want,
at a time when the other person is really listening.

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Charts and Tips for Stress Free Planning &
Scheduling – Retail $3.99

One of the most challenging things for homeschooling mothers is organizing
their home and school. Making a schedule can seem like an overwhelming
task, and be very intimidating. However, the charts and ideas Kathie
gives in this packet will take away the stress and help you to get
organized. Included are printables , a lot of practical information
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creating your schedule or routine and so much more!

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Heart and Soul Homeschool Mama…Becoming an Uncomplicated
Homeschooler – Retail $17.95

Are you a heart and soul homeschool mama, or do you want to be one? Does
homeschooling seem complicated sometimes? Are you blundering through
your days looking for direction? Do you feel like a top which needs
to quit spinning? Round and round you go, but nothing really happens.

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Dealing with a Difficult Child – Retail $2.99

Do you struggle with a child who is difficult or challenging? A child that
often causes you exasperation? One who takes more time and energy than all
your other children put together? This is the child who is different from
your other children, and what works for the others doesn’t work for
him. How do you respond to him? How do you respond to the resentment or
anger he stirs up in you?

In this book you will learn 12 different ways to respond to that difficult
child, and handle the challenges that he brings with a loving, kind
spirit.

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Managing Your Homeschool – Retail – $4.99

Homeschooling your children stretches the organizational skills of the all
of us. Planning a schedule, dealing with mountains of papers, focusing
on what is most important–every day is a challenge. Get ideas and
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How do you juggle a home, a husband, homeschooling, plus working from home?
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Giveaway “Encouragement for Homeschool Moms” collection by Diana Waring

You may remember that I recently reviewed a new curriculum item from Diana Waring called Experience History Through Music.  It was a pleasure getting to know her through the review process!  She has offered to do a special giveaway just for Homeschool Moms of her Homeschool Encouragement Set. 

Here are some details on it–and then enter to win it!

We invite you to experience our REINVIGORATING, REVITALIZING,REMINDING-yourself-why-you’re-DOING-this, Downloadable collection:

Encouragement for Homeschool Moms

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Every mom needs that word of encouragement from someone who has been there, who has grownup children and can speak with assurance about the journey. Homeschool moms have an extra portion of the journey to navigate, and often wish for an extra voice that will offer direction but without nagging or prodding. Diana Waring has that voice.

The Encouragement for Homeschool Moms collection includes an e-book and four audios of Diana’s own brand of support for you.

  • Once Upon a Time E-book– Take a trip back to the days when Diana was living a life very similar to yours, running kids to lessons, managing the needs of three growing children and trying to “get the laundry off the table and get dinner on the table.”
  • Beyond Survival Workshop – With humor, humility and wisdom, Diana allows you to get a glimpse of her homeschool and candidly describes the good times and the bad.
  • Box-Free Living – In this workshop about overcoming perfectionism, so says one friend, or about letting love have a roomy spot in your home, the point is helping your children to relax, to love learning, and to keep in their hearts the values you are trying to instill in them — biblical parenting.
  • Roots – gives parents the assurance that pouring on unconditional love and responsiveness will allow their children to grow deep roots of confidence with certainty of support.
  • Wings – helps parents find a balance between wanting to continue holding on to the hands of little ones and wanting to grant independence to older ones.

This is a $25 value.  Enter on the Rafflecopter app below.  The winner will be chosen on 7/26 and will have 24 hours to respond to my email.

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(Disclosure: I received a copy of the Encouragement for Homeschool Moms collection.)

The Ultimate Homemaking Bundle is on Sale!!! & {Link Party}

Get The Ultimate Homemaking Bundle--Hurry: Sale 6 Days Only!

By popular demand, 100+ homemaking bloggers are bringing back The Ultimate Homemaking Bundle, and it’s better than ever!

The Ultimate Homemaking Bundl is a complete library of great eBooks on homemaking—a truly valuable knowledge base you’ll use for many years to come.

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Or, for just an extra $10, you not only get the full set of PDF files, but also a bonus set of Kindle editions, perfectly formatted for easy Kindle reading. This has been a popular request over the years and I’m excited to say it’s now available!

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Disclosure: I have included affiliate links in this post. Read the fine print about this bundle and read the answers to frequently asked questions about the bundle.

 

It’s time for our Link Party:

From House to Home!

Only 2 rules:

1. Link up family-friendly posts (exact post, not website) about making your house into a home: homemaking, parenting, homeschooling, marriage, loving God! Giveaways, too!

2. Link back to my site with the button below or a text link. Thanks! The code can be found at the top of the Link Party page. (If you don’t link back somewhere on your blog, your link might be deleted.)

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Day 2: Homeschooling Middle School With Well Planned Day Student Planner (& GIVEAWAY!)

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Well Planned Day Student Planner Giveaway

Welcome to Day 2 of Homeschooling Middle School.  (There is a giveaway of the Well-Planned Day Student Planner–so read on!)  One thing that I’ve done that has been extremely successful is to begin transitioning my kids around 4th or 5th grade to be taking more responsibility in their own schooling.  I want them to begin making decisions about what they are learning (which foreign language?) and even to choose their own curriculum if we have a choice between 2 or 3 good ones.  I have found they are often more motivated when they feel they have had a “buy-in” to what they have to do for school.

Another great thing that we’ve done to build their independence in homeschooling is to use some type of student planner.  Sometimes I use a simple Word document chart that lists each subject they are to do each day.  Or we have also used these wonderful Student Planners from Well-Planned Day!  On Monday of each week my 3 oldest kids write down the page numbers, chapters, books to read, etc. that they are planning to do for the subject on each day of that week.  Then they check off each box when they complete it.

This method serves 3 purposes:

1.  They know what they are supposed to do

2.  I know what they are supposed to do and what I need to check

3.  It’s a record of all they have learned for the year

 

I know that my kids are learning some valuable skills by not having Mom make all the decisions about lesson planning for them.  They can choose to go faster through a subject if they want.  They can drop a subject for a while (with my approval) to pursue another subject.  For example, my oldest has been studying Philosophy for the past month and it includes a Bible Study that he has been doing instead of the one he was doing before.  Also, my second son is about to start studying a Home Business course.  This might take the place of some of his math for a while.

So, in conclusion, I recommend transitioning your Middle Schoolers to more independence.  Help them make their own decisions and use a planner so they can be responsible for their work!

The Well-Planned Day Student Planner comes in two styles: Floral and Tech.

Here are some of the features:

  • Help your children learn to work independently!
  • Designed specifically for students in elementary and middle school years.
  • Two design options and features full color pages
  • Spiral bound pages with perforated corner tabs for easy reference.
  • Over 175 pages
  • 9″x6″ size planner
  • July – June monthly and daily layouts
  • Monthly special projects and notes
  • Weekly Bible verse with corresponding catechism (Westminster Shorter)

The student planners also have an extensive reference section on English, Writing, Mathematics, US Geography, World Geography, States and Capitols, US Wars, US Presidents, Solar System, and Space . Perfect for any student attending school or homeschooling!

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Click here to “Peek Inside” the Planner!

 

Please enter on the Rafflecopter below to win a 2014-15 Student Planner from Well-Planned Day!  Your choice of style.  U.S. only, please.  The winner will be chosen on April 16, 2014 and will have 24 hours to respond to my email.

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As a busy homeschool mom, you might want to check out the other planner from Well-Planned Day as well!

April Blog Hop

Other wonderful bloggers from the Schoolhouse Review Crew are participating in the Blog Hop this week, so be sure to head over to their blogs, too!

Anne Marie @ Future.Flying.Saucers ~ Christian Worldview 101
Marya @ Suncoast Momma ~ Homeschooling Special Needs
Kym @ Homeschool Coffee Break ~ Ordinary Homeschooling
Lisa @ Farm Fresh Adventures ~ Our Favorite Family Recipes
Dawn @ Double O Farms ~  Helping Your Struggling Learner
Gena @ I Choose Joy! ~ Homeschooling Middle School
Christine @ Our Homeschool Reviews ~ Free and Frugal Homeschooling
Monique @ Living Life and Learning ~ Homeschooling with Lapbooks
DaLynn @ For the Display of His Splendor ~ Diagramming the Proverbs

 

(Disclosure:  This post contains affiliate links.)

Day 1: Homeschooling Middle School with Grapevine Bible Studies (GIVEAWAY!)

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Depending on how you look at it I am now homeschooling either one or two kids in middle school:  6th and 7th grade.  I have just started this journey, but have learned a few things I’d like to share this week on Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday.

Tuesday:  Grapevine Studies Bible Studies for middle schoolers–With a GIVEAWAY of a $25 Shopping Spree!

Wednesday:  Teaching middle schoolers independence by using planners such as those from Well-Planned Day– With a GIVEAWAY of a Student Planner!

Thursday:  Looking ahead to High School–planning now while they are in middle school — With a Special Offer of a Free Webinar!

For Day 1 of our Middle School series I’d love to share about the Bible Study my boys have been using this year from Grapevine Studies.

Specifically it’s the Level 4 New Testament Survey.  I wanted my boys to get an overview of the whole New Testament as they studied the Bible this year.  Each week they read a portion of Scripture, take notes on it by drawing Stick Figures and other graphics to help them illustrate what happened, answer review questions, and study deeper by using specific resources such as a Bible Dictionary (Vine’s), a Concordance, and a Topical Bible (Nave’s).  It’s been different from other Bible studies they have done in that they are doing a lot of the study on their own.  It’s more open-ended rather than being completely laid out for them.  I really like this aspect since it is stretching them more.  And I know they really enjoy the stick-figuring aspect!

Here are a copy of pages the boys did:  (Sorry they’re side-ways!)

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Make sure you include studying the Bible as part of your Middle Schooler’s learning!

Be sure go to the Grapevine Studies website to look at their free samples.  They have Bible studies for all ages for use in all different settings!  You’ll find what you’re looking for!  (My elementary kids absolutely love the traceable Bible studies–we’re doing an Old Testament survey with them this year.)

Grapevine Studies has offered to giveaway a $25 Shopping Spree!  Please enter through the Rafflecopter app below!  Winner will be chosen on April 15 and will have 24 hours to respond to my email.


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April Blog Hop

Other wonderful bloggers from the Schoolhouse Review Crew are participating in the Blog Hop this week, so be sure to check them out!

Anne Marie @ Future.Flying.Saucers ~ Christian Worldview 101
Marya @ Suncoast Momma ~ Homeschooling Special Needs
Kym @ Homeschool Coffee Break ~ Ordinary Homeschooling
Lisa @ Farm Fresh Adventures ~ Our Favorite Family Recipes
Dawn @ Double O Farms ~  Helping Your Struggling Learner
Gena @ I Choose Joy! ~ Homeschooling Middle School
Christine @ Our Homeschool Reviews ~ Free and Frugal Homeschooling
Monique @ Living Life and Learning ~ Homeschooling with Lapbooks
DaLynn @ For the Display of His Splendor ~ Diagramming the Proverbs

 

(Disclosure:  This post contains affiliate links.)

Homeschooling With Toddlers: Tips and Resources

 

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On Monday night I have the wonderful opportunity to do a presentation of “Homeschooling With Toddlers” at a local library’s homeschool support group.  I am happy to share my notes here in the hope that it will help others and to give links to much more information than I was able to present there.

[By the way, for the next three days, I'll be participating in a Blog Hop with the Schoolhouse Review Crew where I'll be sharing information about Homeschooling Middle School!]

Homeschooling with toddlers is not easy!  It’s frustrating and tiring to continually have interruptions and chaos and noise while you’re trying to homeschool.  But, it’s a good life, and it can work and work well.  Here are some of my best ideas and resources that have helped me homeschool these last 13 years–and I’ve never homeschooled without toddlers!

Hebrews 12:1-3 Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for usLet us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.

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Practical Tips:

1. Don’t overdo it (just a few outside activities).  It was years before I felt able to join a co-op.

2. Have a daily Quiet Time with the Lord before the children wake up (or while you’re nursing, or read the Bible aloud, etc.).  It helps with sanity.  :)  And I love the Unglued Devotional. 

3. Lower your expectations.  The house is going to be messy.  You probably won’t get to everything you’d like to each day.

4. Simplify house tasks (think once-write it down (Kym Wright), grocery shop only once a week, use FlyLady.net or MotivatedMoms.com)

5.  Consistent discipline system.  Start early.  Have appropriate rules and consequences.

6.  Don’t let toddlers get tired or hungry.  Have regular naptimes, bedtimes, and mealtimes.

See our life in action here:   A Day in Our Life 3/7/2008   A Day in Our Life 8/8/2006

Discipline Focus on your relationship first—not just “behavior modification” to get the child to do what you want. For disciplining children, look at Doorposts.net products such as For Instruction in Righteousness, Brother Offended Chart, If-Then Chart, and Blessing Chart.

Teach them about God: I love using Leading Little Ones to God and The Jesus Storybook Bible, as well as the Bible.

Memorize Scripture with them:  With my Preschoolers we memorized a shortened verse from each book of the Old Testament.

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Naptime Reading Routine: Use picture books to teach about animals, colors, letters, numbers, sounds, etc. Some of my favorites are Goodnight Moon (Margaret Wise Brown), Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear (ill. Michael Hague), Inside Outside Upside Down (Stan and Jan Berenstain), I Love You As Much. . .  (Laura Krauss Melmed), The Veggiecational Book (Phil Vischer), In the Ocean (Maurice Pledger), Good Night, Sweet Butterflies (Dawn Bentley), Chicka Chicka Boom Boom (Bill Martin Jr. and John Archambault), Blue Hat, Green Hat (Sandra Boynton), Dr. Seuss’s ABC Book (Dr. Seuss), My ABC of God Loves Me (Fiona Boon) More picture books I love. LetteroftheWeek.com book list,
 Before Five in a Row booklist.

“Ten things to do before age 10”  from the Bluedorns TriviumPursuit.com– great guideline to follow when planning your homeschool year.

Best Toys to Have:  Trains, Zoobs, Dollhouse, Duplos, Kitchen, Gears, Dress-up.  Have these is separate boxes that you only take out during school time.

Table-time Activities: Play foam, puzzles, Wiki Sticks, Playdough

Hands-On Activities:  For Science (Janice VanCleave), Arts and Crafts (The Little Hands Art Book by Judy Press), Sensory Boxes, Cooking

Join a co-op group: To Make Preschool Activities in a Bag or Quiet Book pages Puzzle organizing tip: Label the backs of each piece and its corresponding box with a specific letter or number.

Nature Study: Nature Walks (park, forest preserve). Find different colors, shapes, textures, animals, etc.

Musical Environment

1.  Expose kids to a musical environment at an early age to help them be musical later on.

2.  Provide variety in rhythms, harmonies, instrumentation, and style.

3.  Provide your children with examples of beautiful, excellent, on-pitch singing which will help them sing beautifully and on pitch themselves one day!

4.  It’s important to help children increase readiness for audiation, the ability to hear the music and beat in one’s mind when there is no music being played.

5.  We want our young children to form as many neural pathways and connections as possible in their rapidly growing brains.  This is one reason why musical children typically do better at learning in many other areas of life.

Ways to “Teach” Music Sing, Listen to Classical Music, Dance, Play Simple Rhythm Instruments, and Play Singing Games

Sing Great Christian Songs: Amazing Grace, This Little Light of Mine, Victory in Jesus, Oh How He Loves You and Me, I’ll Fly Away, How Great Thou Art, Because He Lives, He’s Got the Whole World in His Hands, Just a Closer Walk With Thee, You Are My Hiding Place, This is My Father’s World, Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing, I Have Decided to Follow Jesus, Be Thou My Vision, Jesus Loves Me, God is So Good, How Great Thou Art, Oh, How I Love Jesus, Holy, Holy, Holy and Trust and Obey.

Getting out of the house Find educational FREE things to do: Check your library, Free museum dates (Shedd Aquarium, Museum of Science and Industry, Field Museum)

Chicagoland Field Trip Collage

Field Trips we’ve enjoyed: Kohl Children’s Museum, Botanic Gardens, Milwaukee Zoo, Lake County Discovery Museum, fire station, police station

Use Audio Teaching:  Adventure Bible Storybook on CD, Books on CD from the library, many older stories are free online (Beatrix Potter), podcasts, ClassicsforKids.com for music and composer stories

Videos for Toddlers: ABC Say it With Me Bible Memory Verses, Signing Time, Hermie and Friends, Leap Frog videos (Letter Factory), Friends and Heroes

No TV    Turn of the TV!  Only have it on in the late afternoon or evening.  Only 30 minutes a day of an educational video.  Movies only on weekend nights.

Toddler Ideas Websites: PreschoolersandPeace.com, Pinterest, TriviumPursuit.com (the article “Ten Things to do Before Age 10), 1+1+1=1, Homeschoolshare and Homeschoolhelperonline

Books Mom should read: For the Children’s Sake by Susan Schaeffer MacCauley,  A Charlotte Mason Companion by Karen Andreola, A Pocketful of Pinecones by Karen Andreola, Homeschooling With a Meek and Quiet Spirit by Maxwell (also Managers of Their Homes and Managers of Their Chores)

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Don’t Expect “Easy” Proverbs 31:27-28  She watches over the affairs of her houshold and does not eat the bread of idleness.  Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her. Colossians 3:23-24  Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward.  It is the Lord Christ you are serving.

It Ends Too Soon Song for a Fifth Child poem (Babies Don’t Keep) by Ruth Hulbert Hamilton

Ways to Homeschool Older Kids When You Have Toddlers

1. Do “Circle Time” to keep the family together. (Idea from Kendra at PreschoolersandPeace.com)  After you put the baby down for a morning nap or afternoon nap, get all the kids together for group teaching.

Ideas for Circle Time–choose some of these each day:

Bible reading Scripture memorization and other memorization

Read History (Mystery of History or Story of the World)

Read Science (Apologia Exploring Creation elementary series)

Sing/ hymn study Poetry reading (one poem/day)

Practice for our public speaking class (they memorize a speech, story, or poem to recite every 2 weeks)

Worldview (Who Am I? and others from Apologia)

Biography/ Novel

2. Unit Studies:  Pick a subject and work on it with the whole family for a whole month. Read library books; work on lapbooks/notebooks; science experiments; history projects; music and art projects.  Suggestions of topics: Art Appreciation, Oceans, Desert animals, Rainforest, Great Britain, Healthy Eating, Bees

3. Use less teacher-intensive curricula for some subjects: Math-U-See has the math taught on DVD. Teaching Textbooks has the math taught and lessons entered and checked on computer. Online Classes

4. Keep those Toddler Naptimes! Do the hardest work (most teacher-intensive) during naptime or teach the preschoolers to read or play quietly in their rooms.  Use audio learning.

5. Teach older kids to be independent as soon as they can: Write the next lessons on their assignment sheet or planner. Check their answers in the teacher book. Make decisions on which curriculum they’d like to use.

6. Utilize Charts/Assignment Sheets Use Homeschooling Assignment Sheets and Chore Charts.  Or a check-off list of what you did each day.

7. Have a Child-Safe Home Make your home as child-safe as possible so you don’t have to watch them every moment.  Try to have a playroom or basement that they can go play in while you work with older kids.  Have a fenced in backyard.

8. Save “Formal” Math for 3rd or 4th grade. In the earlier years, just let them learn math through real life—in the kitchen, cooking, games.  This idea is spoken in detail at triviumpursuit.com.

9. Hire Help someone to come over to help watch the little one(s) while you work with the older kids.  Junior High or High School girl.  Or pay a college student?  I did this for one year, and had a young lady come over from 9-12 every day to to help teach my preschoolers so I could focus those hours on my older children.

10. Utilize Audio Learning:  Books on CD (Little House on the Prairie and Chronicles of Narnia), Jonathan Park, Your Story Hour, Brinkman Adventures, Jim Hodges, Jim Weiss.   Many of these can be found in the library.

Conclusion

Pray Without Ceasing.  Pray for Wisdom.

Expect Interruptions from your toddlers.

Lower Your Expectations on things that don’t matter as much (perfectly clean or decorated house, gourmet meals)

Choose to be Grateful and Choose to be Joyful!

 

Press On

Philippians 3:13-15 Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. Let those of us who are mature think this way, and if in anything you think otherwise, God will reveal that also to you.

 

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Advice From One Homeschooling Mom of Many to Another: #4 & {Link Party}

Advice from One Homeschooling Mom of Many to Another
For the past month I’ve been posting some advice for a mom of seven who is struggling in her first year of homeschooling.  Three weeks ago I posted my response.  I also have 3 posts from 3 friends of mine: Post #2 can be found here.  Post #3 can be found here.  And today’s post is from a mom of 7!
One of the first things that comes to mind is that her struggles are perfectly normal. I am  sure that most of what she mentioned I have experienced. We have succeeded in some areas and failed in many others. I had an advantage in that I did not start homeschooling when they were teenagers, but much younger.
Anyway, I would suggest first of all to back off on her expectations. I get the feeling they are pretty high. It never works to compare your family to what you think other families are doing/accomplishing. No family is the same. It also seems that the character of the children is her main priority. So if she keeps that in mind, perhaps she needs to take a break from academics and just read the Bible aloud and have kids memorize scripture. Also, she seems to be loading many burdens on herself. At 14, the older girls are perfectly capable of self-teaching with the right curriculum. She does not have to be everything to everyone – they have many siblings they can rely on for part of it. One suggestion also would be to step back and just do some fun things for awhile. For example, read aloud to them and then have the children act out the reading with a skit they write. Go to the library and load up on books and just let everyone read good books. Listen to classic books on audio. Go outside and play. And make sure everyone goes to bed early enough to get a good night’s sleep.  And remember, the children are getting older, so what was a difficulty last year you do not even think about now or wonder why you thought it was such a difficulty.

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Advice From One Homeschooling Mom of Many to Another: #3 & {Link Party}

Advice from One Homeschooling Mom of Many to Another
Recently I had an email from a mom of seven who was struggling in her first year of homeschooling.  Two weeks agoI posted my response.  I also received some responses from 3 friends of mine, so they will be posted on the other Thursdays in March. Post #2 can be found here. And today we have post #3, from a fellow mom of 8!:

I am a friend of Gena Mayo from I Choose Joy. I am 43 years old will be married 20 years this year. We have eight children ages 17 down to 3. We’ve been homeschooling since we became parents. We decided to homeschool when our oldest was just two months old after attending a homeschooling conference. I am not sure I have any great pearls of wisdom but want to say you are normal. Whatever you are feeling, you are normal and there’s no shame in that other than our own pride being wounded that we are not living up to our own expectations.

Gena mentioned you are in your first year of homeschooling. I have heard it said that the first year of homeschooling should be more about getting to know each other again and creating organizational plans and delegating, than grades and school. Part of me thinks you had high expectations and haven’t met them and that’s robbing you of your joy.

Mothering is exhausting under any circumstance but throw homeschooling in the mix and being with our offspring 24/7 and you have a completely different exhaustion, in my humble opinion.

Here are my suggestions:

1. Your relationship with your husband should always come before anything else. You will be giving your children a huge gift to see the priority you place on your marriage and each other. So that said, set up a date night, tell the kids you want to surprise daddy with his favorite meal and a date tonight/tomorrow night so you are feeding them early and they are going to bed early because mom and dad are having an in-house date. Get them involved with decorating, setting the table, getting the house clean. The older kids can read, clean their room and even put the little ones to bed. I think this would go a long way in restoring togetherness among the two of you and your children seeing how important you are to each other and what child doesn’t want to surprise daddy before he gets home?

2. Set aside time for yourself this weekend and let your husband know you need this. Whether it be a couple hours at Starbucks, the library, in the bathtub or your room. Make time for you. You can read, watch tv, write letters, craft or sew, but it has to be something you enjoy for you and no interruptions.

3. Delegate. If your children and husband are not doing anything, they have to be in order for homeschooling to work. Your children are not too young to do chores. I think a goal you should have is most of your children doing the bulk of every day chores with you doing half the meals and helping deep clean. You are the manager (and yes I have Managers of their Homes but haven’t used it in years but I certainly learned much from it) so manage and delegate tasks according to age and ability. I own my own business and do a morning paper route, out of necessity when my husband was laid off six years ago and again last August, so my family does the bulk of the house work. It’s the way it has to be when I work almost 40 hours a week. Granted I have my husband home right now so he’s a huge help and has taken off the stress in helping with homeschool and overseeing the children. But our situation is unique because of his unemployment. We also have a small farm and the children do the bulk of those chores as well. We told them if they wanted animals they would be taking care of them because dad and I wanted to do just vegetables! :) We are raising the next generation and our priority is to raise responsible adults who know how to work hard.

If you get these three things set into your schedule, I think all the rest will fall into place over time. Notice I didn’t say overnight. You have a huge adjustment in having all your children home again, but your three older girls, even your 6 year old can learn to take over some of the meals. Start with breakfast or lunch as those can be fairly easy meals to fix. All five of our older kids can cook many to several meals each. Our 7 and 5 year old help with prep work.

As a mom, you have the most important job in the world – raising your children! God chose you to be their mother and them to be your children. He didn’t make a mistake. You can homeschool successfully and He is with you every step of the way. Homeschooling is more than just school. It is our children learning godly character, learning skills to last them a life time, learning to love and forgive. And as Gena’s blog title suggests, “I Choose Joy”, joy is a choice and we need to choose joy no matter the circumstances, just think of the apostle Paul’s example. I doubt he was very pleased to be jailed but he did choose joy amidst a difficult situation. Homeschooling is as much for our children as it is for us. God refines us in the process.

Anyways, I’ve got to bake with my little ones but hope you can take something of what I said and apply it to your life and home.
May you be blessed with strength and encouragement today.

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Advice From One Homeschooling Mom of Many to Another: #2 & {Link Party}

Advice from One Homeschooling Mom of Many to Another
Recently I had an email from a mom of seven who was struggling in her first year of homeschooling.  Last week I posted my response.  I also received some responses from 3 friends of mine, so they will be posted on the other Thursdays in March.  Today is post #2 from a mom of 6.
Guest Post:
 I also have 2 sets of twins, as well as 2 singles, ages 20, 18, 18 (girls) and 12, 8,8 (boys). I have homeschooled from the beginning.
I wanted to give you some practical tips on homeschooling a large family, which I wish I had known when my kids were younger.

How do you maintain the crazy life and not lose yourself or your mind?

 I really try to keep a sense of humor when things don’t go perfectly well, and they won’t. Chaos isn’t so bad, and you get used to it. My life isn’t so chaotic anymore with 3 finished with school, but my chaos included a year of chemotherapy because of breast cancer 5 years ago, so perspective is key. There is joy in life itself. There is joy in the blessings of many children, a home, a job. Count your blessings often, and thank the Lord often.

How do you and your husband’s relationship not get lost and become a roommate relationship in the midst of life? How does everything not just feel like work?

 Talk to each other and tell him your needs. Be one another’s confidant. Life is work and often times you feel only like roommates, but that happens even if you aren’t homeschooling or have only 1 child.

What do you do with younger kids while trying to school older kids?

For the 3 and 6 yo,
Fill the kitchen sink with soapy water and have them wash ALL the plastic dishes, stack cups, give them beans to put in cups. I always had a box of these items that only came out when I did school with the older kids. The 1 1/2 year old twins are harder. Keep that nap schedule for as long as you can. My twins (8 years old now) were tough at this age so school happened mostly during nap time.  Have the older kids do independent work when the younger ones are awake – reading, writing assignment, math homework. Can you hire someone to come over and just play with the younger ones while you teach the other kids? Can you find a homeschooled teenager in your church to come over 2 times a week to read and play with the younger ones? Maybe a grandparent or single person?

How can I be everything everyone needs all the time without getting burned out?

Don’t do everything! Just because you homeschool doesn’t mean that you are their only teacher. Join a co-op so that someone else can teach certain subjects. You’re already providing them with a better and safer learning environment by pulling them out of the public school; you don’t also have to teach them everything. This year, I am only teaching my 12 year old history. He has a math tutor, my husband teaches science, he has an online writing class, and in co-op he does art, speech, gym; and Bible with my Community Bible Study group.

How do you not be tired..and how do you manage your home and kids all day and have anything left to give your husband at the end if the day..

Assign chores to everyone – have your kids help you make a list of things that need to be done daily (unload dishes, garbage, bedroom…) and weekly (toilets, big garbage can…). Then assign those for the week and rotate those chores. Do a “30 minute pick-up” where everyone is assigned a task or room, and send them all to do that for 30 minutes while you rest! Ask dad to help too. You BOTH work all day (and your work is harder). Evenings shouldn’t only be your burden. If husbands need us to be wives to them, then they need to make it possible for us by not letting us be overtaxed with work. Otherwise exhaustion will take us over. Also consider using paper products for breakfast and lunch and skip the dishes. During the school year, I need to NOT do dishes on school days.
Have the older kids each be in charge of a younger kid for half an hour or an hour every day to give you a break to take a walk outside by yourself, or read the Bible outside.

I recently bought and read and made a schedule based on Managers of their Homes (book).

Keep it simple – simplify as much as you can.
It will get better. Try to be consistent, have a general schedule and don’t worry if you veer away from it; think of what you did accomplish rather than what you didn’t.

I am reading and praying and drawing near to Him…

Pray a lot

There isn’t enough of me to go around..

 That is correct – assign jobs; “anything you remove, you put away,” if it doesn’t get done, there are consequences like no play time or tv (or computer time if you allow it) on weekends

I have always stayed at home and funny enough 5 kids seemed manageable but 7?

It’s the little twins – believe me, it does get better! Enjoy their crazy antics; I miss that when I look back at the pictures of the chaos.

We hardly ever leave the house because it usually takes longer to load everyone up than to actually do whatever it is we needed to in the first place.

 A walk and sunshine does wonders

I really do love being a mom and I wouldn’t trade my life for anything else I just really want to know if this time passes or if it’s just always spinning out of control.

 No one can do this perfectly, not even the Duggars. That’s just television. I hope some of these ideas help you as they have helped me get through some difficult times. Be encouraged that your effort will be a blessing to your family. My older daughters thank me for homeschooling them and plan to do the same when they have children someday. There nothing more encouraging to me than that.
If you have anything to add, please leave a comment!

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New Series: Advice from One Homeschooling Mom of Many to Another {Link Party}

Advice from One Homeschooling Mom of Many to Another

Recently I had an email from a mom of seven who was struggling in her first year of homeschooling.  I hope that my response will be helpful to more people than just her, so I’ve decided to share it here.  I also received some responses from 3 friends of mine, so they will be posted on the other Thursdays in March.  Be sure to come back to read them!

My answer (edited somewhat to preserve her anonymity):

No matter what the size of your family, starting to homeschool after kids have already gone to school is hard for anyone!  I heard one speaker say it takes one month of adjustment for every year the kids have gone to school.  So, hang in there.  It’s learning a new way of life for you and for your kids.  And having the little twins sure doesn’t make it easier!

I now know some other large families, but for many years I received my encouragement and help mostly from the internet.  I’m part of an email loop called MOMYS, Mothers of Many Young Siblings.  There are so many women on that loop that no matter what question you ask, you’ll find someone to give advice on it!

I also got help from books.  Managers of Their Homes (and Chores) helped a bit.  And even though I can never do it the way I plan it on paper, it still helps me get focused.  I also liked the book Large Family Logistics and got a lot of great ideas from it.

I’m so sorry about you feeling like the joy has left your home.  I think I would put aside the regular school work for a while and do some fun learning.  Let the kids choose some topics they’d like to study and check out a bunch of books and videos at the library.  They could do lapbooks on the topic if they think that’s fun.  Go on some field trips.  The Homeschool Buyer’s Co-op website has a great list of field trip ideas for every city!  Read aloud a bunch.  That’s one of my favorite parts of each day.  Do some art, or music appreciation, or anything else that’s fun and different to help everyone get happy again.  January is a rough month for most homeschoolers.

> How do you maintain the crazy life and not lose yourself or your mind?  
I do feel like I’m losing my mind–at least once every day!  But talking it out with my husband, getting some good systems going (kids assigned to chores, check-off lists, laundry schedule), and getting out of the house alone occasionally helps.

> How do you and your husband’s relationship not get lost and become a roommate relationship in the midst of life?
A few years ago we started talking together in bed every night.  We make sure we go to bed at the same time, so we have that time to connect (and work out issues if there are some).  I get less sleep now, but our relationship is so much stronger I would not trade it for the world!

> How does everything not just feel like work?
Well, a lot of it is work, so it is going to feel that way.  Parenting and teaching and homemaking are hard work!  So, you just need to look for the things that can delight you in the midst of it.  Aren’t your twins funny?  Take time to watch them and laugh!  Sing.  Dance.  Get silly when you can.

> What do you do with younger kids while trying to school older kids?
I’m still not good at this one.  I did hire a young lady to come and help in the mornings last year when I had a newborn and 2-year-old (and 6 older kids to homeschool).  Most of the time now I just let them play in the basement and hope they entertain themselves.  Other times, they have one of my older kids to play with them when they are in between schoolwork.  I do my focused read-aloud time in the afternoon when my baby is sleeping.  I wish my 3-year-old would still nap, since he doesn’t have the attention span to listen to me read for so long.  This is still an area I’m not very good at!

> How can I be everything everyone needs all the time without getting burned out?
Here is another thing I’m struggling with as well.  I just try to make sure my priorities are straight.  I do need some alone time every day, so if I get it, that helps be reguvenate.  But it’s still very hard and I often feel like there isn’t enough of me to go around.

> How do you not be tired?
I am ALWAYS tired:(

> And how do you manage your home and kids all day and have anything left to give your husband at the end if the day?
My husband is such an encouragement to me at the end of the day (most days) that I do have something left.  But not everyday.  Remember, this is your first year of homeschooling.  It’s a really hard year!  Everyone, including you and your husband needs to understand that and lower their expectations.

> The biggest problem I feel is that there isn’t enough of me to go around.
Yes, I feel like this, too.  I just make sure that I check everyone’s schoolwork every few days, since it’s impossible to do it every day.

>  I want to teach my children Godly character and I want to love and respect my husband and I want to be good at homeschooling and I don’t want my house to be a wreck all the time and I want to provide healthy meals but honestly I feel like just the regular maintenance of everyday is so overwhelming.
It is overwhelming.  There is no way you can do everything.  Figure out where you can cut back –at least for a while (a year or two?). Easier meals, hiring someone to help, paper instead of dishes?  Can you lower some expectations about housework?  We never make our beds here.  One of my boys has two boxes under his bunkbed where he puts his clothes.  Nothing to hang up, no folding.  It’s easy.  I get cleaning ladies to come in once a month.  So I never mop or clean showers.

> We hardly ever leave the house because it usually takes longer to load everyone up than to actually do whatever it is we needed to in the first place.
My husband does the grocery shopping on Saturdays because of this. It is extremely exhausting for me to take everyone out.  So, we don’t do it very often.

 I’m so glad you reached out!  I do hear your heart, and I am praying for you.  This life (of having a large family, and homeschooling them) is so hard, but so worth it.  Don’t give up!  

My favorite Scripture:  Hebrews 12:1-3

Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,  looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured from sinners such hostility against himself, so that you may not grow weary or fainthearted

Your sister in Christ,
Gena

 

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From House to Home {Link Party}: Science Fun!

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We’ve been having some fun science time around our home lately. My husband and kids found a praying mantis in the yard. We got a cage and some crickets (10 for $1 at the pet store!) and had her for a couple of weeks. We know it was a “her” because she laid an egg sac! The last time we did this, we kept the egg sac in the garage all winter, then set it out in the spring. We saw the baby praying mantis hatch!

My preschoolers also did a simple activity to learn about leaves changing in the fall. I love all the great books at the library you can find about leaves changing!
 

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Our Favorite Chicagoland Field Trips

 

Chicagoland Field Trip Collage

 

I have now lived in the Chicagoland area for about 13 years, and I’d love to share with you today about 5 of our favorite field trips.  Each of the following will take you to links of LOTS of pictures and fun that we’ve had on these field trips.  If you’re ever in the area, be sure to try these out!

Kohl Children’s Museum:  All my kids 9 and under LOVE this place!  There is a wide variety of hands-on activities, from dressing up to science to art.

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Shedd Aquarium:  If you love ocean animals, you’ll love the Shedd in downtown Chicago (on Lake Michigan).  The beluga whales are one of my favorite exhibits there.

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Chicago Botanic Gardens: Here’s a free one (although they do charge for parking).  The gardens are so huge, we never get through them all in a day.

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Milwaukee Zoo:  Even though Chicago has several great zoos, I always decide I like the Milwaukee Zoo better.  It’s still the same driving distance for us.

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Field Museum:  My oldest son said this was his his favorite field trip.  You’ll find “Sue” in the lobby–the largest T-Rex skeleton.  There are “stuffed” animals of all types, different exhibits on various cultures, rocks and minerals, and so much more.  Think “Night at the Museum” to get an idea of what you might find here.  :)  Just be aware of the obvious pro-evolutionary leanings of the entire museum.

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Here are some other Field Trips we’d recommend:

Naper Settlement:

 

Grayslake Recycling Center, Long Grove Confectionary (Chocolate Factory) Tour, Science and Industry Museum, Old World Wisconsin, Morton Arboretum, and

Adler Planetarium:

Find more awesome Field Trips from Around the World where I’m linked up today:

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My Top Ten Favorite Books to Read Aloud

Favorite books

 

I’m so happy to share today my top 10 favorite books to read aloud! As a homeschooling mom of 8, I spend a lot of time reading aloud to my kids, and it’s probably my most favorite part of homeschooling! I’ve read all of these books through at least once, and will happily read them all again as my kids grow– and then will hopefully read them to my grandkids as well!

Little House on the Prairie series (all books) by Laura Ingalls Wilder

 

The Chronicles of Narnia (all books) by C.S. Lewis

 

Heidi by Johanna Spyri

 

Anne of Green Gables (book 1, not the whole series) by L.M. Montgomery

 

The Hobbit by J.R.R. Tolkien

 

Rascal by Sterling North

 

The Sign of the Beaver by Elizabeth George Speare

 

 

Johnny Tremain by Esther Forbes

 

The Bronze Bow by Elizabeth George Speare

 

The Story of Dr. Dolittle by Hugh Lofting

 

If you haven’t read these, but have seen the movies, remember:  The book is always better!

Did I miss any of your favorites? Please share. I’d love to add to the list!  And if you enjoy this post, please pin it!

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Review/Giveaway of Homeschool T-Shirt and $5.99 Sale!

Homeschool T-Shirt Giveaway

 

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Don’t you love this shirt!  It says, “When you’re homeschooled, you never know where you’ll end up!”

It’s sold by Great Products, and they’re having a sale where hundreds of adult and children’s t-shirts are only $5.99 right now, through September 15!

Here are a few others I love:

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I received the t-shirt within a week after I ordered it.  It fit true to size and is made of high quality 100% cotton, very soft!  I love the design I chose, with the tie-dye style and wonderful saying about the Presidents on Mt. Rushmore being homeschooled.  The only negative I have to say is that the font is difficult to read.  I saw a few people trying to read it while I was grocery shopping at Target today, but it was hard to read it quickly as we were all rushing through our Sunday afternoon shopping.

Here are a few other ways to connect with Great Products:
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/greatproducts
Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/joshgp

And now a Giveaway:   The prize will be one free homeschool t-shirt of the winner’s choice in whatever size and color they prefer!

The Winner will be chosen on Tuesday 9/3/2013 and will have 48 hours to respond to my email about their choice of t-shirt and mailing address.  U.S. entries only, please.

 

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Our 2013-2014 Homeschool Schedule

Homeschool Schedule

 

Well, after some deep thinking I’ve come up with a schedule that will hopefully make it possible to fit in all our wonderful curriculum plans for this year!  Let me start off by saying that this is not really the way I like to do things.  This schedule is going to be WAY too precise and detailed.  I love having a basic skeleton of a schedule in mind, with lots of room to play around inside it.  But that won’t allow us to complete everything this year, so I’m trying this instead–with the thought that hopefully it will only be for one year!

Furthermore, this is my “dream” schedule–the ideal.  I’m sure we will rarely, if ever, do it exactly like this!  We have quite a few “extras” that are going to mess with this schedule:  band at the Christian School (4 days a week for B, 2 days for J), violin lessons on Wednesday mornings, and piano lessons on Thursday mornings.  We might be doing a co-op on Fridays.  Our speech class is on Tuesday afternoons.  See my curriculum post for more details on what we’re using.

The schedule–from Mom’s point of view:

6:00-7:00   Wake, Bible Time, Get baby and myself ready

7:00-8:00   Breakfast for me and baby (and little ones if they’re awake), emails

8:00  Exercise

8:45  Baby to nap

9:00-9:30  Phonics lesson with R (8yrs.)

9:30-9:45  Phonics lesson with T (6 yrs.)

9:45-10:00 Phonics lesson with L (4 yrs.)

10:00-10:45  Morning Group Time  (choose from Pray, Sing, Practice Memory Verses, Jesus Storybook Bible, Answers for Kids, Science lesson, library books, SQUILT, Classical Composers Monthly, Art lesson)

10:45-11:15 Independent meeting with M (9 yrs.)

11:15-11:45  Independent meeting with B (12 yrs.)

11:45-1:00  Lunch, chores, blogging

1:00 Baby to nap

1:15-2:00 Afternoon Group Time (History/Geography lesson, read-aloud biography, read-aloud novel)

2:00-2:30  Independent meeting with J (11 yrs.)

2:30-3:30 Rest and Read

3:30-4:30  House chores, office work, homeschool planning, sewing

4:30-5:15 Dinner Prep

By the way, to help me with scheduling and planning, I used the book Managers of Their Homes–so helpful!

 

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Our 2013-2014 Homeschool Curriculum Plans! plus {Linky}

Today I’m sharing one of the most important posts I write each year:

 Our 2013-2014 Homeschool Curriculum Plans!

There’s also a place at the end for you to link up your own homeschool curriculum plans. I love reading these, so link up at any time!

Below you’ll see each of my children and the curriculum I’ve chosen for them this year.  I try to combine as many grades together as possible (easiest with science, history/geography, and read-alouds).  My next challenge is to come up with a schedule where we can get all this done!  I’ll work on that and share it next week.  :)

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2013-2014 Homeschool Curriculum

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B (7th grade):

Following “The Grammar Level:  Ten Things to Do From Ages 10-12″

Writing: Institute for Excellence in Writing, Group B Student Writing Intensive

Math:  Teaching Textbooks 7th Grade

Literature:  still deciding on this (Shakespeare plays and classic novels)

Bible Study:  New Testament Survey with Grapevine Studies

Logic:  Building Thinking Skills, Level 3 Figural

Grammar:  Finish 6th grade Daily Grams and start 7th grade

Latin:  First Form Latin

History/Geography:  Around the World in 180 Days

Science:  Christian Kids Explore Physics*

Institute for Cultural Communications (ICC) Speech class

Band at Christian school- saxophone

Violin

Football and Onward Basketball

Spotlight drama class and productions

 

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J (6th grade):

Following “The Grammar Level:  Ten Things to Do From Ages 10-12″

Writing: Institute for Excellence in Writing, Group A Student Writing Intensive

Math:  Finish Math-U-See Zeta and start Teaching Textbooks 7th Grade

Bible Study:  New Testament Survey with Grapevine Studies 

Logic:  Building Thinking Skills, Level 2 and start Level 3 Figural

Grammar: 6th grade Daily Grams

Spelling:  Spelling Power

Latin:  Finish First Form Latin

History/Geography:  Around the World in 180 Days

Science:  Christian Kids Explore Physics*

ICC (Institiute for Cultural Communications) Speech class

Band at Christian School- percussion

Violin

Piano

Upward Basketball

Spotlight drama class and productions

 

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M (4th grade):

Following “The Grammar Level:  Ten Things to Do From Ages 10-12″

Writing: Institute for Excellence in Writing, Group A Student Writing Intensive

Math:  Finish Math-U-See Gamma  and start Delta

Bible Study:  Explorers Bible Study (Jesus, My Shepherd), Grapevine Studies Old Testament Traceable study 

LogicBuilding Thinking Skills, Level 2

Grammar: Find e-book or online materials

Spelling:  Spelling Power

Spanish: El Espanol Facil– The Easy Spanish  *  *

History/Geography:  Around the World in 180 Days

ScienceApologia Zoology 3 Land Animals

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ICC (Institiute for Cultural Communications) Speech class

Violin

Piano

Upward Basketball

Spotlight drama class and productions

 

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R (3rd grade):

Following “The Ten Things to do Before Age 10″

Handwriting:  Cursive Handwriting Without Tears

Phonics:  Explode the Code workbooks

Reading:  All About Reading, Level 2  *

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Math:  Math-U-See Alpha in the spring

Bible Study:  Grapevine Studies Old Testament Traceable study 

Jesus storybook Bible *

History/Geography:  Around the World in 180 Days

Science:  Apologia Zoology 3 Land Animals

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ICC (Institiute for Cultural Communications) Speech class

Piano

Upward Basketball

Spotlight drama class and productions

 

 

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T (1st grade):

Following “The Ten Things to do Before Age 10″

Handwriting:  Handwriting Without Tears

Phonics:  Explode the Code workbooks

Reading:  Alpha-Phonics, read Rod and Staff books:  Bible Nurture and Reader Series

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Bible Study:  Answers in Genesis Bible Study:*  Answers for Kids

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Jesus storybook Bible *

History/Geography:  Around the World in 180 Days

Science:  Apologia Zoology 3 Land Animals

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ICC (Institiute for Cultural Communications) Speech class

Violin

Upward Basketball

Spotlight drama class

 

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L (Kindergarten):

Following “The Ten Things to do Before Age 10″

Handwriting:  Handwriting Without Tears

Phonics:  Explode the Code workbooks

Reading:  Alpha-Phonics, read Rod and Staff books:  Bible Nurture and Reader Series

Bible Study:  Answers in Genesis Bible Study:*  Answers for Kids

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Jesus storybook Bible *

History/Geography:  Around the World in 180 Days

Science:  Apologia Zoology 3 Land Animals

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Early Childhood music and movement (I’ll teach this at a co-op)

Spotlight drama class

 

 

 

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Z (3 years old): preschool

Following “The Ten Things to do Before Age 10″

Jesus storybook Bible  *

History/Geography:  Around the World in 180 Days

Science:  Apologia Zoology 3 Land Animals

Early Childhood music and movement (I’ll teach this at a co-op)

 

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E (1 year old)

Following “The Ten Things to do Before Age 10″

read board books

Early Childhood music and movement (I’ll teach this at a co-op)

 

Other Enrichment activities for the kids:

Art:  See the Light * Bible Story DVDs (Christmas and Easter), drawing/crafts for science animals, Global Art book for geography art projects
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Historical fiction:  A Benge biography from each continent—David Livingstone (Africa), Gladys Aylward (Asia),  D.L. Moody (North America), Nate Saint (South America), George Muller (Europe).  Any recommendations for Australia and Antarctica?
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Notebooking/Journaling/Lapbooking for history/geography and science:  maps, animals, people, cultural elements

 

Read-Aloud novels:  Dr. Doolittle, Old Yeller, Gentle Ben (Walt Morey),The Wind in the Willows, Black Beauty, Rascal (Sterling North), Charlotte’s Web (E.B. White), James and the Giant Peach (Roald Dahl)
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Music:

Singing, worship team at church

SQUILT (Listening activites)*–Super Quiet Uninterrupted Listening Time, volume 1 Baroque Composers

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and  Classical Composers Monthly *

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Art:
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Swim lessons

 

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From House to Home {Link Party}: 2013 Summer Homeschooling Plans

Summer Homeschooling Plans

 

The From House to Home Link Party is open below.  Please link up a post or two!

One of the greatest blessings about homeschooling is that we have freedom!  We school year-round and just take breaks when needed.  And I’ve decided:  I need a break now!  Friday is going to be our last official school day of this year.  Then we’ll take a couple of weeks off to regroup.

Here are our plans for the summer:

Bible Bee Sword Study and Memory Verses–  This is an in-depth Bible Study which takes about 30 minutes a day.  It incorporates reading, writing, history, using reference materials, etc.

Lots of music lessons– B (12) will take violin and saxophone lessons.  J (11) will take percussion, piano, and violin lessons.  M (9) piano and violin.  R ( 8) piano.  T (6) violin.   And  they will all take singing lessons with me (mostly group, but the oldest ones will have some private lessons as well).  We’ll also do some focus on music theory, written as well as computer or iPad apps.  (If you know of any good ones, let me know!)

Summer camps– One week of sports camp called LifeSports and one week of theater camp with Spotlight.

Math– My oldest needs to finish his 6th grade math book.

History– We’ll continue reading history to finish volume 2 of Mystery of History.  I also have a couple of historical fiction books to do a review on.

Science– I have a unit study science book to do a review on, so we’ll do a couple of those.

Phonics/Reading Lessons– Do Alpha-Phonics with R (8), T (6), and L (4)

Typing– I like to use the summertime to have the kids do typing practice.  We like these free websites:  typingweb.com and bbc.co.uk/schools/typing

Art– We might add in some drawing lessons.

Reading– Summer reading programs where they’ll do lots of silent reading, I’ll continue to read aloud


Jonathan Park– We love to listen to these great CD dramas and learn about creation science and apologetics.  I’m going to see if I can add in some enrichment activities to go along with the reading.

A.C.T.S. Summer of Service  Service Projects

So, things that will to on hold until next fall are: Latin, Logic, Writing, Math, Worldview, Handwriting, Spelling, and Grammar!

Also, my oldest has been begging to do football for years.  This might be the year we relent (we have one more month to think about it).  If we do, that will consume months August – November.  Do you sense that I’m not into it?  The weirdest thing is that he actually “looks” like a football player.  Trying to make the right decision here.

Vacations–  The first that I’m so glad we get to do is our state’s annual homeschooling convention called ICHE (Illinois Christian Home Educators).  I first went when my oldest was 17 months old and my 2nd child was 6 weeks.  We went every year since until last year because Baby E was born.  She’s almost one and started walking yesterday!  Anyway, my husband and I be going to the convention with the baby and two oldest boys in June.  We have a couple of young ladies (sisters) who will come and stay with the other kids.  We might do a road trip, but haven’t made any plans yet!  And we’ll do our summertime trip up to the lake where my husband’s parents live.

 

What are your summer plans?

 

It’s time for our Link Up Party: From House to Home!

Only 2 rules:

1. Link up family-friendly posts (exact post, not website) about making your house into a home: homemaking, parenting, homeschooling, marriage, loving God!

2. Link back to my site with the button below or a text link. Thanks! The code can be found at the top of the Link Party page. (If you don’t link back, your link might be deleted.)

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Collage/Journal Friday: The Hobbit and Keeping Strong to the End

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Hands-On Project:

Over the holidays we went to see The Hobbit.  My second son was inspired by his cousins to make duct tape “weapons.”  They even wore these things to the theater to watch it!  They’re made by cutting two pieces of cardboard in whatever blade shape is desired.  Angle it over a stick, and cover the whole thing with duct tape.  (Let me know if you’re interested in a full picture tutorial.)

What We’re Reading:

What I’m reading aloud to the kids:

Tabitha’s Travels by Arnold Ytreeide.  We finally finished this advent story!

Challenge on the Hill of Fire (Imagination Station book 10, review coming soon) by Marianne Hering

Apologia Zoology 2/Swimming Creatures- Read about rays, skates, and sharks this week.

Mystery of History, Volume 2- Read about St. Augustine, St. Jerome and the Vulgate, and St. Patrick.

 

What I’m reading to myself:

At Home in Mitford by Jan Karon.  I’m going to read through this wonderful series for the third time!

Six Ways to Keep the “Little” in Your Girl:  Guiding Your Daughter from Her Tweens to Her Teens by Dannah Gresh

 

New Homeschooling Idea:

I had gotten very frustrated last semester in my kids not getting all their work done.  So, I decided that I’d write out every single page/paper/book, etc. that they should do each day of the week.  They aren’t allowed to use any electronics in the afternoon until everything on the sheet is done–and I’ve checked it.  And so far it’s working–they got all their work done this week!  And I was able to get it checked, too!

Public Speaking Class:

The speech assignments for the month of January are to do impromptus.  I think I would have freaked out if I had to do this at my kids’ ages!  (Don’t tell them!).  They did really well this week!  The way it works is this:  They are given a topic such as “On my last birthday. . . ” or “My favorite school subject is. . . .”  They have one minute to think about it.  Then they get up in front of the class and have up to 2 minutes to speak about it.

Aladdin Show:

My oldest son is in the musical Aladdin, and has started the rehearsals, which are about 45 minutes away.  It’s going to be a very busy couple of months.  He plays a Palace Guard, and I’m on the costume committee, so that should be fun!

Exercise Update:

I’m still trying to get consistent in my exercising.  I’ve only done one T-Tapp workout so far this week.  :(  I’ve had such a hard time fitting it in.  So I decided this morning that I will do it immediately after putting the baby to bed each morning.  We’ll see how that goes next week–I still need to do my 4-day boot camp.  Good news, though!  My eating habits were better, and I lost 2 pounds!

What God is Teaching Me:

I started reading 1 Corinthians this week.  I’ve decided to read it through very slowly and work on meditation–we studied about biblical meditation this week in our Worldview book Who Am I? . The verse that spoke to me most this week–and I think it will be a good focus verse for the whole year–is 1 Corinthians 1:8:

“Who will sustain you to the end, guiltless in the day of our Lord Jesus Christ. (ESV)

Or in the NIV it says,

He will keep you strong to the end, so that you will be blameless on the day of our Lord Jesus Christ”

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Using CurrClick to Help in Homeschooling

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I’ve been using CurrClick for years to help in my homeschooling.  We’ve loved doing lapbooks and adding notebooking pages to our lessons.  Did you know they also have online classes?  I’ve thought about doing the Lego class for my Lego-maniacs, but we haven’t had time to add anything else to our lives yet.  :)  Other ideas I’m considering–foreign language, writing, art, and science experiments.

Here are a few things to check out there:

They have a Freebie every week.  This week’s is “Make Your Own ABC Book About . . .  The Animal Kingdom”

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If you’d like to learn more about the classes, today and tomorrow you can check out the Winter-Spring Meet and Greet Open House.  It’s free!

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How I got interested in the Classical Method for Homeschooling

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As I was considering what to write today about Classical education for a link-up, I found a post I had written in 2008.  I changed some things to reflect what we’ve done since then.   Please enjoy this “blast from the past!”

Probably the best way to start is to explain why I started homeschooling in the first place.  I started out as a public school teacher at a junior high (7th-9th grade).  It didn’t take me long to understand some of the inner workings of that system–things most parents never even think about or consider.  I was amazed at the discipline problems and how little time I was actually able to teach the kids.  Even as a strong Christian I felt strapped in how I could express my beliefs, and usually didn’t do it at all.  There was so much wasted time.  There was so much crime (we even had a full-time city police officer on campus at all times.)  I would look up at a few dedicated, sweet kids in my room and think, “It’s so sad that you are in this situation; I never want my kids to be in a place like this if there is an alternative.”

But I didn’t know of any alternative, except for private school.  I had still never heard of homeschooling.  Then I had a child transfer into my class midway through the year who had been homeschooled.  I was very skeptical about it.  And the teacher next door to me told me her daughter was homeschooled because she had severe learning disabilities.  I thought, “How can you be homeschooling her when you are teaching here all day?”  I later learned that her husband actually did shift work, so he was home with the girl during the day; she was old enough to do a lot independently, and there is so much flexibility to when you can learn (evenings and weekends).  My paradigm was beginning to shift.

After three years I couldn’t handle the junior high environment anymore and went to teach at an elementary school.  It was brand-new.  The teachers and administrators were wonderful.  I had a full-time aide in my classroom to help me at all times.  You’d think this would be the perfect situation for the sweet little kids!  But I was seeing what was wrong there, too.  The children spent SO much time standing in line in the hallway, waiting for the bathroom or P.E. or lunch.  It was such a waste. The children had to be treated as a group and taught as a group, instead of as individuals.   And there were those teachers that were screamers or so focused on the problems in their own homes they really couldn’t take care of 22 young kids at school very well.  The saddest moment for me was on the last day of school I looked around at my kindergarteners (I taught K-4th grade music and had 600 students) and realized how few of their names I knew.  If I didn’t even know their names, how could I be teaching to their needs?  I was pregnant by this time and decided to spend some serious time investigating homeschooling.

The first method I studied was about Classical Education.  I read Dorothy Sayer’s article “The Lost Tools of Learning” and was really inspired by it.  Another book that I read soon after was For the Children’s Sake by Susan Shaeffer Macaulay.


What an incredible book!  I learned so much about education and was introduced to Charlotte Mason and her wonderful ideas.  (More on her in amother post!)

I went to my first homeschool convention (Illinois Christian Home Educators, www.iche.org) when my oldest was 17 months old and my 2nd child was 6 weeks old.  I was blown away and brought my husband with me the next year.  He was blown away, too!  We’re now 100% pro-homeschooling and pray that the Lord will allow us to continue until our children graduate from high school.

One of the seminars I attended at that first homeschool convention was with the Bluedorn’s.  They said many things that really resonated with me and helped to form my philosophy of education, but one was concerning delaying formal math.  They explained that forcing the symbolic math before the child’s brain is prepared for it can really cause problems.  (They have lots of data on this at their website, www.triviumpursuit.com).  As they were talking I realized that’s what happened to me.  I never really understood math.  I could memorize all the rules and formulas and tricks in the word problems and get straight A’s.  But I never enjoyed it or really “got” it.  I took college algebra (which is like Algebra I) at 20 years old and finally understood what they were talking about!  I told people that my brain wasn’t mature enough to understand it before.  But now I think that my brain was messed up; things were being placed in the wrong places.

I want my children to really understand and enjoy math.  So I decided way back then that we would delay formal math.  That means that we do not have a math textbook or workbooks until around 4th grade.  We do very little math on paper when they’re younger  (although they do like doing some math apps on the iPad).  Most of what we do is through real-life experience:  playing games, cooking, measuring, figuring out how to divide things evenly, counting, sorting, dealing with money, looking at the calendar, etc.  As I’ve said before, I’m amazed at how much they know!  Around age 8 or 9 I start them with Math-U-See.  They go through about two books a year until 6th or 7th grade.  Then, they’re “caught up” (pre-algebra level).  I have really found this method to work well for us because I can focus on other things when they’re younger (reading and handwriting) and wait for formal math when they can grasp the concepts much quicker!

I’ll write more on the Classical education model in the weeks to come–such as learning Logic and Latin!

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