On Monday night I have the wonderful opportunity to do a presentation of “Homeschooling With Toddlers” at a local library’s homeschool support group. I am happy to share my notes here in the hope that it will help others and to give links to much more information than I was able to present there.
[By the way, for the next three days, I’ll be participating in a Blog Hop with the Schoolhouse Review Crew where I’ll be sharing information about Homeschooling Middle School!]
Homeschooling with toddlers is not easy! It’s frustrating and tiring to continually have interruptions and chaos and noise while you’re trying to homeschool. But, it’s a good life, and it can work and work well. Here are some of my best ideas and resources that have helped me homeschool these last 13 years–and I’ve never homeschooled without toddlers!
Hebrews 12:1-3 Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. 2 Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. 3 Consider him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.
Practical Tips for Homeschooling with Toddlers:
1. Don’t overdo it (just a few outside activities). It was years before I felt able to join a co-op.
3. Lower your expectations. The house is going to be messy. You probably won’t get to everything you’d like to each day.
5. Consistent discipline system. Start early. Have appropriate rules and consequences.
6. Don’t let toddlers get tired or hungry. Have regular naptimes, bedtimes, and mealtimes.
See our life in action here:
Discipline Focus on your relationship first—not just “behavior modification” to get the child to do what you want. For disciplining children, look at Doorposts.net products such as For Instruction in Righteousness, Brother Offended Chart, If-Then Chart, and Blessing Chart.
Teach them about God: I love using Leading Little Ones to God and The Jesus Storybook Bible, as well as the Bible.
Memorize Scripture with them: With my Preschoolers we memorized a shortened verse from each book of the Old Testament.
Naptime Reading Routine:
Use picture books to teach about animals, colors, letters, numbers, sounds, etc. Some of my favorites are Goodnight Moon (Margaret Wise Brown), Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear (ill. Michael Hague), Inside Outside Upside Down (Stan and Jan Berenstain), I Love You As Much. . . (Laura Krauss Melmed), The Veggiecational Book (Phil Vischer), In the Ocean (Maurice Pledger), Good Night, Sweet Butterflies (Dawn Bentley), Chicka Chicka Boom Boom (Bill Martin Jr. and John Archambault), Blue Hat, Green Hat (Sandra Boynton), Dr. Seuss’s ABC Book (Dr. Seuss), My ABC of God Loves Me (Fiona Boon) More picture books I love. LetteroftheWeek.com book list,
Before Five in a Row booklist.
“Ten things to do before age 10” from the Bluedorns TriviumPursuit.com– great guideline to follow when planning your homeschool year.
Best Toys to Have: Trains, Zoobs, Dollhouse, Duplos, Kitchen, Gears, Dress-up. Have these is separate boxes that you only take out during school time.
Table-time Activities: Play foam, puzzles, Wiki Sticks, Playdough
Hands-On Activities: For Science (Janice VanCleave), Arts and Crafts (The Little Hands Art Book by Judy Press), Sensory Boxes, Cooking
Nature Study: Nature Walks (park, forest preserve). Find different colors, shapes, textures, animals, etc.
1. Expose kids to a musical environment at an early age to help them be musical later on.
2. Provide variety in rhythms, harmonies, instrumentation, and style.
3. Provide your children with examples of beautiful, excellent, on-pitch singing which will help them sing beautifully and on pitch themselves one day!
4. It’s important to help children increase readiness for audiation, the ability to hear the music and beat in one’s mind when there is no music being played.
5. We want our young children to form as many neural pathways and connections as possible in their rapidly growing brains. This is one reason why musical children typically do better at learning in many other areas of life.
Ways to “Teach” Music Sing, Listen to Classical Music, Dance, Play Simple Rhythm Instruments, and Play Singing Games
Sing Great Christian Songs: Amazing Grace, This Little Light of Mine, Victory in Jesus, Oh How He Loves You and Me, I’ll Fly Away, How Great Thou Art, Because He Lives, He’s Got the Whole World in His Hands, Just a Closer Walk With Thee, You Are My Hiding Place, This is My Father’s World, Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing, I Have Decided to Follow Jesus, Be Thou My Vision, Jesus Loves Me, God is So Good, How Great Thou Art, Oh, How I Love Jesus, Holy, Holy, Holy and Trust and Obey.
Get out of the house
—Find educational FREE things to do: Check your library, Free museum dates (Shedd Aquarium, Museum of Science and Industry, Field Museum)
Field Trips we’ve enjoyed: Kohl Children’s Museum, Botanic Gardens, Milwaukee Zoo, Lake County Discovery Museum, fire station, police station
No TV Ideas
No TV Turn of the TV! Only have it on in the late afternoon or evening. Only 30 minutes a day of an educational video. Movies only on weekend nights.
Books Mom should read:
For the Children’s Sake by Susan Schaeffer MacCauley, A Charlotte Mason Companion by Karen Andreola, A Pocketful of Pinecones by Karen Andreola, Homeschooling With a Meek and Quiet Spirit by Maxwell (also Managers of Their Homes and Managers of Their Chores)
Don’t Expect “Easy”
Proverbs 31:27-28 She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her. Colossians 3:23-24 Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.
It Ends Too Soon Song for a Fifth Child poem (Babies Don’t Keep) by Ruth Hulbert Hamilton
Ways to Homeschool Older Kids When You Have Toddlers
1. Do “Circle Time” to keep the family together. (Idea from Kendra at PreschoolersandPeace.com) After you put the baby down for a morning nap or afternoon nap, get all the kids together for group teaching.
Ideas for Circle Time–choose some of these each day:
Bible reading Scripture memorization and other memorization
Read History (Mystery of History or Story of the World)
Read Science (Apologia Exploring Creation elementary series)
Sing/ hymn study Poetry reading (one poem/day)
Practice for our public speaking class (they memorize a speech, story, or poem to recite every 2 weeks)
Worldview (Who Am I? and others from Apologia)
2. Unit Studies: Pick a subject and work on it with the whole family for a whole month. Read library books; work on lapbooks/notebooks; science experiments; history projects; music and art projects. Suggestions of topics: Art Appreciation, Oceans, Desert animals, Rainforest, Great Britain, Healthy Eating, Bees
3. Use less teacher-intensive curricula for some subjects: Math-U-See has the math taught on DVD. Teaching Textbooks has the math taught and lessons entered and checked on the computer. Online Classes
4. Keep those Toddler Naptimes! Do the hardest work (most teacher-intensive) during naptime or teach the preschoolers to read or play quietly in their rooms. Use audio learning.
5. Teach older kids to be independent as soon as they can: Write the next lessons on their assignment sheet or planner. Check their answers in the teacher book. Make decisions on which curriculum they’d like to use.
6. Utilize Charts/Assignment Sheets Use Homeschooling Assignment Sheets and Chore Charts. Or a check-off list of what you did each day.
7. Have a Child-Safe Home Make your home as child-safe as possible so you don’t have to watch them every moment. Try to have a playroom or basement that they can go play in while you work with older kids. Have a fenced in backyard.
8. Save “Formal” Math for 3rd or 4th grade. In the earlier years, just let them learn math through real life—in the kitchen, cooking, games. This idea is spoken in detail at triviumpursuit.com.
9. Hire Help someone to come over to help watch the little one(s) while you work with the older kids. Junior High or High School girl. Or pay a college student? I did this for one year, and had a young lady come over from 9-12 every day to to help teach my preschoolers so I could focus those hours on my older children.
10. Utilize Audio Learning: Books on CD (Little House on the Prairie and Chronicles of Narnia), Jonathan Park, Your Story Hour, Brinkman Adventures, Jim Hodges, Jim Weiss. Many of these can be found in the library.
Pray Without Ceasing. Pray for Wisdom.
Expect Interruptions from your toddlers.
Lower Your Expectations on things that don’t matter as much (perfectly clean or decorated house, gourmet meals)
Choose to be Grateful and Choose to be Joyful!
Philippians 3:13-15 Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. Let those of us who are mature think this way, and if in anything you think otherwise, God will reveal that also to you.
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